By Synergy Operating Systems
Family law has many dimensions and is influenced by legal as well as
social and economic factors. Laws affecting relationships may change as
traditions and attitudes evolve. Because these laws are complex, vary
from state to state, and subject to change, this file is only intended
to provide general information; it is not a substitute for legal advice.
Ending a marriage may be a particularly upsetting event, involving many
uncertainties and emotions. If separation or dissolution is unavoidable
or in your best interest, a lawyer can guide you in protecting your
rights. The pamphlet discusses areas of concern and attempts to answer
frequently asked questions.
HOW CAN A MARRIAGE BE ENDED?
Various procedures may be used to end a marriage that breaks down,
including annulment, separation and dissolution.
Annulment is a court-ordered dissolution of an invalid marriage.
Technically called a "Decree of Invalidity," it nullifies a marriage
from its inception and is granted in situations where no valid marriage
exists because of some legal defect.
A separation may be formalized with a legal contract, or a "Decree of
Legal Separation," or both. A legal separation may be preferred to a
dissolution for religious, economic or other reasons. A couple may
decide to live apart while attempting to save a faltering relationship,
or the separation may be an interim step toward termination of the
marriage. (There is no legal requirement for actual separation before
dissolving a marriage.)
Oral or written understandings concerning property disposition,
arrangements for children, maintenance or other agreements made while
separated may become part of a dissolution proceeding.
If a marriage falls apart and is considered "irretrievably broken," one
or both partners may seek a dissolution of the relationship. This court
proceeding legally terminates a marriage, and makes provisions for the
parenting of minor children, family support and property division.
In most state's, a spouse does not have to prove wrongdoing to obtain a
divorce (now legally called a "dissolution of marriage"). This no-fault
system is intended to help spouses settle matters without unnecessary
bitterness or resentment.
WHAT ARE THE RESIDENCY REQUIREMENTS?
Each state has different requirements but in most states you need only
to reside in that state on the date that your petition for dissolution
of marriage is filled.
WHAT ARE THE LEGAL PROCEDURES?
Ending a marriage involves many legal considerations. Technically, an
attorney is not required for the process, but a lawyer's skill and
experience can be helpful to a person contemplating separation or
divorce. A lawyer's advice may be especially beneficial in cases that
are contested or that involve children and property settlements.
To start a dissolution proceeding, one spouse (called the "petitioner")
must file with the court a summons and "petition" for dissolution of
marriage. Once known as the "complaint," this document is then served
on the other spouse (known as the "respondent"), usually by having
copies delivered to him or her. Although there is no major legal
significance as to whether the husband or wife files the petition, there
may be emotional or procedural advantages.
The purpose of the summons is to command the responding spouse to reply
to the petition. Basic facts about the marriage are contained in the
petition, which also specifies what the petitioning spouse wants in the
way of a parenting plan, property division and support.
Once served, and depending on the recipient's location (whether in-state
or elsewhere), the responding spouse has from 20 to 60 days to reply in
writing to the petition. This reply, called a "response," may include a
"counter-petition," and states the respondent's position on children,
property and support.
In many situations, the next step is to arrange temporary orders to
guide the conduct of the parties. Either spouse may obtain temporary
orders. Typically, the requests cover such subjects as residential
arrangements for the children and child support, spousal maintenance,
occupancy of the family home, payment of bills and other concerns for
protecting people or preserving property. If the spouses cannot agree on
the temporary orders, a court hearing with a judge or court commissioner
will be held to establish necessary requirements.
To settle any immediate problems in a dissolution action, a "show cause
proceeding" may be requested by either spouse. This proceeding is
initiated by obtaining a court order that requires your spouse to show
cause why you should not be granted the relief you are requesting at the
same time, the court can also immediately restrain your spouse from
harassing you, entering your home, taking children out of state,
disposing of property, or incurring any unusual debts.
Other restraints may also be imposed in exceptional circumstances. A
hearing is held (usually about three weeks after the show cause order is
issued) to decide most requests. Attendance by spouses is recommended,
but not usually required if both parties are represented by attorneys.
All issues must be settled in order to finish a case. If terms cannot be
negotiated between spouses a trial will be held to decide any disputes.
If spouses agree on a settlement and no aspect of the dissolution is
contested, the case does not have to go to trial.
The final stage occurs when the court signs a "Decree of Dissolution of
Marriage." Settlements negotiated between spouses are presented in
writing for approval by the court and signature by the judge If the case
requires a trial, the judge's decision is recorded in writing and signed
by the judge who conducts the trial. A marriage is not dissolved and
neither party may remarry until the judge signs the decree.
HOW LONG DOES IT TAKE?
The waiting period is different in all states. Aa dissolution of
marriage in most state's is three to six months. This means the summons
and petition must be filed with the court and served upon the other
spouse for more than 90 days before the judge signs the decree. This is
a minimum period and is intended to allow time for a reconciliation
between parties. The process could take much longer if any aspect of a
dissolution is contested and the parties have difficulty reaching an
During the waiting period, temporary orders may be issued that provide a
temporary parenting plan for minor children, provide protection or
support money, or otherwise control the conduct of the parties.
Property settlement may be negotiated during this period or may, in
fact, be arranged before filing the petition for dissolution.
CAN A WIFE CHANGE HER NAME?
At the wife's request, her maiden name or a former name can be restored
as part of the dissolution decree. The request should be included in
WHAT ABOUT THE CHILDREN?
Most state's requires a parenting plan in any proceeding for annulment,
legal separation or marital dissolution where minor children are
involved. The terms "child custody" and "visitation" are no longer used
in most state dissolution law. Instead, the parents by agreement (or the
court in the event of a dispute) must develop a parenting plan.
The parents may make an agreed parenting plan, or each parent may
propose opposing plans. The court considers the best interests of the
children in determining how to provide for children. Every permanent
parenting plan must contain at least the following elements:
* A schedule for residential care which will maintain the child's
emotional stability, minimize exposure to harmful parental conflict, and
allow for continued healthy parent-child relationships between the child
and both parents (in cases where there is no reason to limit the contact
between a child and parent).
* Allocation of responsibility for parental decision making.
* Provisions for the resolution of future disputes between the parents
with respect to parenting decisions.
The dissolution of a marriage does not dissolve the parent-child
relationship. Moreover, the children of divorcing parents are no longer
treated as prizes to be won or lost in the dissolution process.
Divorcing parents are required to plan for the long-term needs of their
minor children. The focus is on long-term planning for the child's
changing needs as the child grows and matures.
The law includes provisions for the protection of children from parental
abuse or neglect, from continued exposure to domestic violence, from the
abusive use of parental conflict, and from other types of conduct which
the court finds to be adverse to the child's best interests.
The law also seeks to ensure that existing patterns of interaction
between the children and both their parents are altered only to the
extent necessitated by the changed relationship of the parents, or as
required to protect the children from physical, mental or emotional
WHAT ABOUT CHILD SUPPORT?
Both parents have a duty to support their children. Child support is
based on a support schedule which takes into consideration the total
cost of providing a home for the children and of taking care of them in
all ways, and for each parent's respective share of that cost, in accord
with their incomes.
Child support is subject to periodic modification to meet changes in the
needs of the children, as well as changes in each parent's ability to
Child support payments are usually required until a child is 18 years
old, although circumstances may affect the duration of the support
obligation. For example, if a child under the age of 18 gets married or
other- wise becomes emancipated or self-supporting, the court may
terminate the parental obligation for support.
The court will also extend the obligation for support if a child is
still in high school after reaching the age of 18. Post-majority support
may also be required for a dependent child's college or vocational
education expenses, or for a handicapped child.
WHAT ABOUT SPOUSAL SUPPORT?
Spousal maintenance may be awarded where there is need on the part of
one spouse and ability to pay by the other.
Once called "alimony," spousal support is now referred to as
"maintenance." It will not be awarded or withheld as punishment for
marital misconduct. The duration and amount depend upon the facts and
circumstances of each case.
In determining the need for maintenance, and the appropriate duration
and amount, the court will consider:
* financial resources of each party;
* work experience and earning prospects of each spouse, including
consideration for the time required for one spouse to obtain training
for becoming employed or self-supporting;
* age and physical and emotional conditions of each party;
* the duration of the marriage;
* the standard of living established during the marriage.
HOW IS PROPERTY DIVIDED?
There is no fixed method for determining how property should be divided.
In most state's, all assets --real and personal, tangible and
intangible--are available for distribution. In a community property
state, laws provide for "fair, just and equitable" division of property
acquired during a marriage; it does not necessarily require an equal
division. Under some circumstances, the court may also apportion
separate (or individual) property.
If the husband and wife negotiate an agreement, the court will probably
approve it. If no settlement is reached, the court will decide how to
divide the property. Property settlement agreements are binding and
generally cannot be modified.
Property division is generally made without regard to marital
misconduct; instead, a court considers:
* nature and extent of community property;
* nature and extent of separate property;
* how long the parties were married;
* financial position of each party: whether each spouse is employed
and self-supporting; entitlements to social security and profit-sharing
* who is going to pay the bills;
* special circumstances.
HOW ARE BILLS OR DEBTS DIVIDED?
All liabilities must also be divided when dissolving a marriage.
Consideration is given to the type of debt and the circumstances under
which it arose. Factors influencing the property division are also
applied when dividing obligations.
Most credit and charge account agreements provide for joint liability
for any charges added to joint accounts. Therefore, creditors should be
instructed (in writing) to remove your name from or, alternatively,
close all joint accounts. If you wish to maintain credit with certain
creditors, separate accounts should be opened.
WHAT IF ONE SPOUSE FAILS TO OBEY COURT ORDERS?
Like any judicial order, a judgment for dissolution will be enforced by
the court. Various legal remedies are available. Persons who willfully
refuse to comply with court orders may be held in contempt and jailed or
Child support orders will be enforced by way of mandatory payroll
deduction. This will be paid to the Washington State Child Support
Registry from the inception of the order, unless the court finds that
there is good cause to believe that the support will be voluntarily paid
directly to the other parent on a timely basis.
Mandatory payroll deduction also is available as a means of collecting
support in cases where the original order did not provide for that
method of collection, if the obligated parent has fallen behind in a sum
equal to or exceeding one month of support payments.
Parents who are not receiving court-ordered support should contact their
local Office of Support Enforcement or a private attorney.
WHAT ARE THE TAX CONSEQUENCES OF A DISSOLUTION?
Property settlements and family support arrangements can have serious
tax consequences to one or both spouses. Tax filing status will be
affected by a decree of dissolution, annulment or legal separation.
Legal or accountant's fees incurred for tax planning and advice in
connection with a marital proceeding may be partially deductible.
MUST I USE A LAWYER?
Most state laws do not require that the services of an attorney be used
in dissolution proceedings. Among alternatives to having a lawyer
represent each spouse are self-help guidebooks and mediation with the
help of a trained professional. The costs--and consequences--of each
option can vary significantly, so Spouses should carefully consider the
possibilities before proceeding.
A WORD OF CAUTION
Each couple should realize their case is different from all others. Most
state laws are based upon the belief that each case must be considered
separately and that, in most situations, the parties can negotiate in
good faith. If you need advice or have questions about the application
of the law in a particular matter, you should consult a lawyer.
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